HOW TO KNOW A POTENTIAL PROBLEM SPOUSE BEFORE GETTING INVOLVE WITH THEM.

HOW TO KNOW A POTENTIAL PROBLEM SPOUSE BEFORE GETTING INVOLVE WITH THEM.

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Y ou will need to be able to detect a wounded spirit person, people that suffer many let down. These can never hold down a relationship or keep one from falling apart. One of the reason why Christians backslided is due to falling prey to bad marriage. They fall into a bad marriage because they failed to understand that there are different groups of Christians in the church that one can be unequally yoke with. Each groups of believers in the church operate in a different spiritual stratosphere. In this article we will deal with six different groups of Christians in the church and show you how to identified each.

WOUNDED SPIRIT:

Proverbs 18:14-AV The spirit of a man will sustain his infirmity; but a wounded spirit who can bear?

If the woman is using spites to get attentions, or seeking attention while pretending that she do not need it. This is a person that has two emotions running through them all at once. Love you and disgust you all at once. This is sure sign that you are walking into a death trap. If the woman is not humble or come down, she is not ready for you, are you could be running after a potential problem woman.

BROKENHEARTED:

Isaiah 61:1-AV The Spirit of the Lord GOD [is] upon me; because the LORD hath anointed me to preach good tidings unto the meek; he hath sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to [them that are] bound;

You love will never be able to repair the heart of a broken hearted person, only God can help that conditions. The person will need to forgave, then pick up the pieces and move on, these kind of people do not move on, pick up pieces nor forgave. That is why they remain broken hearted. The further you stay away from them will be the better it will be for you and them. It is not hard to know these kind because they tell you outright." I do not want to be bothered"

HOWEVER, NOT ALL POTENTIAL PROBLEM PEOPLE GIVE ANY INDICATION AS WHAT THEY ARE:

Many will not even give an indication, when you realized what happen it is too late for you. Bear in mind that I am writing from a Christian prospective. As a child of God you will need to know what you are jumping into. Remember, that if you are caught keeping a sweet heart the Christian community will dis-fellowship you. And disdained you In their hearts and mind. In other words, you loose your testimonies and influence. If no body need to make sure of what kind of people that are getting involve with, Christians need to. I will show you six different group of people in the Church all clamming to be born again. How! getting married out of your group could get you into trouble.

WE NEED TO LEARN THE HOLY SPIRIT FIRST BEFORE WE GET INTO CONTRACT WITH PEOPLE SIMPLE BECAUSE THEY SAY THAT THEY SAVE:

John 14:26-AV But the Comforter, [which is] the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.

John 16:13-AV Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, [that] shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come.

SIX GROUPS OF CHRISTIANS IN THE CHURCH:

1Corinthians 7:29-AV But this I say, brethren, the time [is] short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none;

(1) THE SPIRITUAL GROUP:

1Corinthians 3:1-AV And I, brethren, could not speak unto you as unto spiritual, but as unto carnal, [even] as unto babes in Christ. 1Corinthians 3:2-AV I have fed you with milk, and not with meat: for hitherto ye were not able [to bear it], neither yet now are ye able.

This verse tell us that there is a spiritual group, these are the people who are mature in God. This maturity do not take many years to reach. it is a mind conditions.

Proverbs 3:28 (KJV) Say not unto thy neighbour, Go, and come again, and to morrow I will give; when thou hast it by thee.

The spiritual minded group are those that came of age and do not act in the negative. He she will not jump down in the mud, nor get entangle with the foolishness of the carnal minded Christians.

Proverbs 24:16-18 (KJV) For a just man falleth seven times, and riseth up again: but the wicked shall fall into mischief. [17] Rejoice not when thine enemy falleth, and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth: [18] Lest the Lord see it, and it displease him, and he turn away his wrath from him.

(2) THE CARNAL GROUP:

Group one and group two are save, however, group two does not come of spiritual age. Group two do not understand why group one have to go an a fasting, why spending hundred of dollars to buy gospel tracts and give them out in the street, that people are going to dump any way. You get the chance to do that pretty woman and refuses, saying" You want to be faithful to your wife and to God" Group two do not understand why! What all the fuss about! Group two borrow and do not pay back, if you can get away with it why not take it!

The spiritual man cannot live and be happy with group two. Group two is going by his or own set of rules. 1Corinthians 3:3-AV For ye are yet carnal: for whereas [there is] among you envying, and strife, and divisions, are ye not carnal, and walk as men?

You can know when you are dealing with the carnal group, because they are loaded down with wars and fighting. They can never come to an agreement. These have wicked ways. The carnal group is save just like the spiritual group, but are immature, adults who know the scriptures and are acting like little jealous school children. These are just like the old prophet mentions in 1 Kings 13. The carnal man and the spiritual man live in two different spiritual stratosphere.

1 Kings 13:11 (KJV) Now there dwelt an old prophet in Bethel; and his sons came and told him all the works that the man of God had done that day in Bethel: the words which he had spoken unto the king, them they told also to their father.

1Corinthians 14:37-AV If any man think himself to be a prophet, or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things that I write unto you are the commandments of the Lord.

1Corinthians 8:2-AV And if any man think that he knoweth any thing, he knoweth nothing yet as he ought to know.

THE CARNAL GROUP DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE SPIRITUAL GROUP:

John 3:8-AV The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whither it goeth: so is every one that is born of the Spirit.

(3) THE FALSE GROUP:

Galatians 2:4-AV And that because of false brethren unawares brought in, who came in privily to spy out our liberty which we have in Christ Jesus, that they might bring us into bondage:

This group is loaded down with hate, and at the same time appeared to be over spiritual. Having a form of godliness.

2Timothy 3:5-AV Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.

(4) THE SINCERE BUT DECEIVED GROUP:

The deceived groups have many spiritual gifts but are not subject to God In other word, this group of believers are poses, by Satan spirit. This group is also call the natural man. Group one is call the spiritual man, who put on the new man. The deceive group is a dangerous groups of people. These fill your back with knives after finish eating with you, or done praying for you.

Romans 8:7-AV Because the carnal mind [is] enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.

1Corinthians 3:18-AV Let no man deceive himself. If any man among you seemeth to be wise in this world, let him become a fool, that he may be wise. Mark 13:6-AV For many shall come in my name, saying, I am [Christ]; and shall deceive many.

1Samuel 16:14-AV But the Spirit of the LORD departed from Saul, and an evil spirit from the LORD troubled him.

THINKING THAT EVERY SPIRIT THAT SAY GOOD THINGS ABOUT CHRIST IS OF CHRIST:

These are deceived in the way that they do not know what spirit they are of. What spirit rule their life, what spirit to yield to. It is not every time such person are possess. But their main problems is that they do not know the Spirit of God. And are not working accordingly to his will.

Luke 9:54-56 (KJV) And when his disciples James and John saw this, they said, Lord, wilt thou that we command fire to come down from heaven, and consume them, even as Elias did? [55] But he turned, and rebuked them, and said, Ye know not what manner of spirit ye are of. [56] For the Son of man is not come to destroy men's lives, but to save them. And they went to another village.

Acts 16:16-AV And it came to pass, as we went to prayer, a certain damsel possessed with a spirit of divination met us, which brought her masters much gain by soothsaying: Acts 16:17-AV The same followed Paul and us, and cried, saying, These men are the servants of the most high God, which shew unto us the way of salvation. Acts 16:18-AV And this did she many days. But Paul, being grieved, turned and said to the spirit, I command thee in the name of Jesus Christ to come out of her. And he came out the same hour. Acts 16:19-AV And when her masters saw that the hope of their gains was gone, they caught Paul and Silas, and drew [them] into the marketplace unto the rulers,

(5) THOSE WHO CAME IN TO CAPITALIZES ON THE SHEEP:

2Corinthians 11:13-AV For such [are] false apostles, deceitful workers, transforming themselves into the apostles of Christ. 2Corinthians 11:14-AV And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light. 2Corinthians 11:15-AV Therefore [it is] no great thing if his ministers also be transformed as the ministers of righteousness; whose end shall be according to their works.

Acts 20:29-AV For I know this, that after my departing shall grievous wolves enter in among you, not sparing the flock.

(6) CHILDREN OF CHRISTIANS PARENTAGE:

These grew up in the Church but some of them, do not know Christ for themselves, they believe with the mind. This group is the best the world has to offer. However, marriage between the spiritual group (1) and any of these bound to end in tragedy. Because they do not understand the concept of God. For example, men have problem with women, because they believe that women came to men for sex. But, women does not need men for sex, they can do more for themselves by artificial means than what a man could ever do.

If a man do not know this, he will never be able to figure out why a woman want him. If you do not come of spiritual age to discern what group a believer fall under, you should be careful how you seek marriage among them, because you are going to have problem.

WIVES PROBLEM:

1Peter 3:1-AV Likewise, ye wives, [be] in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; 1Peter 3:2-AV While they behold your chaste conversation [coupled] with fear. 1Peter 3:3-AV Whose adorning let it not be that outward [adorning] of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; 1Peter 3:4-AV But [let it be] the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, [even the ornament] of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.

1Peter 3:5-AV For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:

1Peter 3:6-AV Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement. 1Peter 3:7-AV Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with [them] according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

HUSBANDS PROBLEM:

Ephesians 5:25-AV Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

Colossians 3:19-AV Husbands, love [your] wives, and be not bitter against them.

Malachi 2:14-AV Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet [is] she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant. Malachi 2:15-AV And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. Malachi 2:16-AV For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for [one] covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.

SOBER MINDED NESS THE EVIDENCE OF THE SPIRITUAL CHRISTIANS:

Titus 2:1-8 (KJV) But speak thou the things which become sound doctrine: [2] That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience. [3] The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; [4] That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, [5] To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. [6] Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded. [7] In all things shewing thyself a pattern of good works: in doctrine shewing uncorruptness, gravity, sincerity, [8] Sound speech, that cannot be condemned; that he that is of the contrary part may be ashamed, having no evil thing to say of you.

Proverbs 24:4-AV And by knowledge shall the chambers be filled with all precious and pleasant riches.

Proverbs 11:9-AV An hypocrite with [his] mouth destroyeth his neighbour: but through knowledge shall the just be delivered.

Jeremiah 33:3-AV Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not.

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